5th - 9th December, 2018.

  • a Queer/Inclusive Sacred Sexuality Adventure.

Held over 5 days on a beautiful farm near Glastonbury in Somerset.

consent – ritual – emergent – embodied– diversity – self-development – connection – inspiration – creativity– play - sex magic -  integration

Entering the winter, we follow the cycles together, explore the roots and the ground of our being, deepen our knowledge and awareness and build practices that we can weave into our lives for sustenance and growth.

A group of experienced facilitators will bring their skills and offerings and work together to tune into the energies of the group, the land and themselves, and to shape the event structure based on what is emerging. Held-in-the-Flow will be a lovingly and safely held space where everyone can also be part of the process of creation, as we all continue to learn to trust the integrity of our bodies, our intuitions, our energies and our magical connections.

consent – ritual – emergent – embodied– diversity – self-development – connection – inspiration – creativity– play - sex magic -  integration

Cost: £375 (£275 concessions). Early bird tickets (before 1st September): £325 (£225 concessions).

Prices include dormitory accomodation and all food.

To book email: for booking form and payment details.


Al Head

Al Head is a queer, genderqueer human. Que has been a pagan for over 35 years and led rituals and workshops for about this time. At the same time que has been an earth, disability and lgbtq activist, working on building community and making safe spaces for lgbtq+ people. Que is also a performer and workshop leader in drama, aerial and physical theatre and Fooling, a singer/songwriter, a musician, and a writer. Last year que published ques first book, 'Queer Deity, Sacred Slut'. Que is a certified teacher in Re-evaluation Counselling (co-counselling) and has experience of supporting people through healing from trauma and abuse.

Al has been consciously learning and developing sex magic for around 15 years, and in 2014 started leading 'This Land Sex Magic' workshops. These have been one day, two day and weekend workshops and have taken place in many places in the UK, as well as Berlin and Sweden. Part of the work has involved building a pool of assistants and networking with and supporting other facilitators of sacred sexuality, and so this 5-day event, working together with others, feels like a natural, and exciting progression.

Qweaver Jackson

Qweaver is a a queer explorer, sex positive, activist, poet, healer who has run workshops and events in queer spaces over a number of years.  These are safe spaces for intentional exploration, practice and affirmation, accepting and celebrating each as they are whilst tuning into the potential for growth, together.


Self-awareness, self-love & self-care are foundational to love-full, authentic living. Bringing intentionality to these practices is a vital life skill that is transformative and deeply magical. Qweaver is also fascinated by ceremony, movement, meditation, toning, touch as tools of consciousness, healing, embodied routes into pure presence.

Tom Cowan

Tom is a passionate and good humoured Vajrasati yoga teacher, sharing a therapeutic, mindful and inclusive practice.  He has a passion for nature connection work bringing awareness and meditative practices into the wild outdoors. He facilitates group work within the LGBTQ community for different organisations including Loving Men, Queer Spirit Festival and the Radical Faeries. 

Mary Newing

Mary is a holistic practitioner offering one-one sessions and holding space for groups. Touring the festival circuit during the summer and based in West London during the winter. She has worked at a diverse range of festivals, Glastonbury, Buddhafield, Boomtown, SummerHouser Weekend, Quntinsensual and Queer Spirit to name but a few. Her one-one sessions are a blend of her skills based on the client’s needs. Her initial bodywork training was Thai Massage which she continue to deepen by studying with highly respected teachers from around the world and softened by moving towards the energetic and spiritual, studying Reiki, Tantra and Shamanism. Mary completed teacher training with Shivananda in India and Elemental School of Chi Kung in London. As well as teaching yoga and mediation she runs tantra workshops and has been combining tantra with rope bondage as a medium for communication and transformation. She is also a regular part of the Koinonia team and organising teams for Radical Faerie gatherings.  

Daniel Morrison - Assistant.

Daniel has been involved in sacred sexuality and conscious connection for several years. He has assisted with facilitation and organisation at various workshops and events.  He's a single parent, Buddhish, activist, and a queer transgender warrior.

Lloyd Collins – Food Co-ordinator

I was always a big boy, second helpings were never enough for me. I try to minimise my greed to sometimes I just cant help myself. I’ve always been passionate about food, creating and eating delicious meals. I’m looking forward to keeping everyone well fed and nourished throughout the event. Having an interest in the link between food and state of mind as well as general wellbeing has lead me in personal exploration of whole food, raw food, low carb and paleo diets and other aspects of healthy eating. My passion for eating has also led me on an exploration of big piles of naughty greasy deliciousness so there may be influences from both sides! I’m experienced in event catering both in manging the kitchen and teams to produce food for large numbers and I’m feeling excited about being part of the Held in the Flow team.